Haha, I'm just scolded by a friend on what a lazy blogger i am. (Sorry Leisurely Life!)
Yeah, i guess I'm to be blame for this, so I promised her I'd put something here. As a typical chinese man (we can't stand losing face!), I'll have to fulfill my promise.
So here, I'll be talking about being positive.
Now, friends, this is what I have seen in many people, many times. When we are met with assignments, problems, tasks etc, what always goes in mind is:
- Owwhh man!!! Not again!
- I'm definitely going to do badly this time...
- Don't you think I am busy enough already?
- My results! How am i going to score with so many to do!?
- This is DAMN STRESSFUL!!!
... and the list goes on!
This is NOT HEALTHY! And it's not going to HELP YOU complete your tasks either! People may say "Yeah, Buddy, I get it already! I've heard about it THOUSANDS OF TIMES!". The funny thing is, almost everyone STILL KEEPS COMPLAINING! Because let's face it, it's EASIER to COMPLAIN and to BLAME OTHER STUFFS on how MISERABLE and STRESSFUL your lifes are.
My friends, WE HAVE TO THINK POSITIVE! We are RESPONSIBLE for OUR LIVES!
Okay, so those who knows me might say, "I don't see you being POSITIVE everyday!". That's right, I don't. So why am I typing all this crap, you ask? Firstly, to REMIND myself I have to stay POSITIVE! Secondly, to let as MANY of you people READING this, to STOP thinking NEGATIVE, we can do this TOGETHER. It's more FUN doing it TOGETHER and the IMPACT is GREATER!!
I'll explain a little bit more...
So WHAT is exactly thinking positive? HOW do we think positive? A few questions I'd like you to answer here.
- WHAT is it that you REALLY WANT?
- WHAT makes you HAPPY just by THINKING of IT?
- WHAT MOTIVATES you?
- WHAT do you WANT in your FUTURE that you think MAY BE impossible but nevertheless will be a MIND BLOWING EXPERIENCE if it TRULY HAPPENS?
All the answers you have given for the above questions, KEEP THOSE ANSWERS IN MIND, as FREQUENTLY as POSSIBLE! By doing those, you'll GENERATE a form of POSITIVE ENERGY that will HELP YOU accomplish ANY TASKS AT HAND!
Intead of thinking "OH MY GOD! Why ME?", try PICTURING what you WANT as the END RESULT of your tasks. Like picturing PEOPLE CONGRATULATING YOU, saying "HEY, what you DID was GREAT! GOOD JOB!".
Have you ever kept thinking "Don't let this happen! Don't let this happen!" and the things you fear will happen just HAPPENED LIKE THAT? This i s because unconsciously, YOU ARE PICTURING YOUR FEAR IN EVERY SENSE, and thus FOCUSED to make it happened. Ever thought of that?
I had always enjoyed a sitcom when i suscribed to Astro few years ago. Now the subscription have been stopped. Anyway, this show I was referring to is "That's So Raven". For those who are unfamilliar with the show, let me explain a bit. The main character of this sitcom, Raven, has visions randomly popping in her mind very frequently, and those visions in the end almost always happened. Basically she can see the future. Usually, she'll do something to make sure it happens (or not happen), but at the end of the show, the vision will usually materialise.
Now I want you to picture you are like Raven, having the ability to forsee what is going to happen in the future. Except this time, instead of having random visions like her, you have the ABILITY TO CONTROL WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR VISION and WHEN YOU WANT it to APPEAR in your MIND. Try it, you'll get what you want. I've tried it. It does happen in the end. I'm experimenting on BIGGER visions. Those just need a little more thing to it.
Oops, my batteries is almost dried up. I'm typing in a cafe now, haha. I guess I'll have to stop here. I have more to tell next time, if, you readers want to tell more.
Bye!
2 comments:
ya, we must be positive especially when we are mad for our assignment, hostel's activities and also san hua.... busy ya. but this is life, I always tell myself that this is life that will help me to learn more, to learn to become a responsible person and mature person. I'm doing that now. Hope u can do so !! both of us work hard for it ! Jia You !! xD
Thanks.
We can complain or feel bad for awhile. But as quickly as possible, go on to finish your tasks.
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